The wite and wisdom of Mominatrix, she that must be obeyed http://dating.blameitonlove.com/list.php?13 Tue, 07 Sep 2010 21:45:09 -0700 Phorum 5.2-dev http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,7975,7975#msg-7975 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,7975,7975#msg-7975
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he says "you won't wear them much, don't worry"

I replied "LOOK at these shoes! They are fabulous! What do you mean I won't wear them!!!"

Beatings are required.]]> amusinglisa The Dungeon Fri, 12 Dec 2008 09:56:40 -0800 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,3367,3367#msg-3367 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,3367,3367#msg-3367 eeek The Dungeon Mon, 08 Sep 2008 18:22:26 -0700 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,2879,2879#msg-2879 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,2879,2879#msg-2879
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I will take all the work out of online dating for you.]]> Mominatrix The Dungeon Mon, 11 Aug 2008 22:38:04 -0700 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,2644,2644#msg-2644 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,2644,2644#msg-2644 ]]> Mominatrix The Dungeon Thu, 02 Apr 2009 00:27:49 -0700 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,2563,2563#msg-2563 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,2563,2563#msg-2563
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He had this checklist of things to look for when you are a woman dating a man. He says not to nit pick peripherals but to zero in on personal character when you look for red flags.

So apparently SSG's problem with men who wear white socks with black shoes, is a peripheral. It would seem that my insistence on dating a man who does not wear cowboy boots and a cowboy hat, may be as well.


1. Is he humble, or does he brag shamelessly or talk about himself constantly?
2. Is he courteous and respectful, or does he repeatedly cut you off in mid-sentence?
3. Does he apologize if he hurts you or has made a mistake?
4. Does he focus on you, or does he seem distracted by other women?
5. Is he patient with children?
6. Does he treat waiters and service people with respect?
7. Does he carry himself in a dignified manner, or does he curse, get drunk, or yell?
8. Does he give to charity?
9. Even if he is not close to his parents or family, does he listen to you when you tell him why he should reconsider?
10. Is he generous, or does he insist you pay half the bill?

He says if you have 7 out of these 10 things, you can relax.

These are actually things that I am on the look out for when I am dating, before I even saw the list. Not so much the fucking cursing thing, but the getting drunk and acting like a dipshit, yeah. I avoid the angry people of both genders.

He says we can teach the men the rest of the stuff they have to know. I don't know how true that is... but I have noticed in couples that have good relationships, the men are generally much more female compliant than not.

I am so dying to hear what the men think. Now remember, this is advice for success in finding a long term relationship, not a booty call.]]> Mominatrix The Dungeon Thu, 26 Jun 2008 01:07:06 -0700 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,1293,1293#msg-1293 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,1293,1293#msg-1293 http://www.neimanmarcus.com/store/catalog/prod.jhtml?itemId=prod58310249&parentId=cat13030764&masterId=cat13030734&index=31&cmCat=cat000000cat000141cat13030734cat13030764]]> Mominatrix The Dungeon Wed, 18 Jun 2008 12:43:40 -0700 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,1266,1266#msg-1266 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,1266,1266#msg-1266



]]> Mominatrix The Dungeon Mon, 16 Jun 2008 19:08:27 -0700 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,1018,1018#msg-1018 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,1018,1018#msg-1018 I need some advice. First of all, I haven't bought any new shoes in like 2 months, and am suffering serious withdrawal symptoms. How can I cure this?!
Secondly, what do I do about a guy that tells me one thing, and then says something almost polar opposite to that in the next breath? Should I shank him now, and hide the body later-or wait and see?]]> Sarcastic_Smileygirl The Dungeon Mon, 09 Jun 2008 17:51:07 -0700 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,831,831#msg-831 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,831,831#msg-831
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http://www.momlogic.com/2008/06/whos_sleeping_with_your_husban.php?icid=1615984945x1203660633x1200309794]]> Mominatrix The Dungeon Wed, 04 Jun 2008 01:27:09 -0700 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,546,546#msg-546 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,546,546#msg-546
1. Show up on time

2. Do your best work

3. When time is up put your little pencil down]]> eeek The Dungeon Wed, 04 Jun 2008 18:51:08 -0700 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,362,362#msg-362 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,362,362#msg-362 http://www.fstdt.com/fundies/top100.aspx

It was just really, really disturbing.]]> Mominatrix The Dungeon Sun, 18 Nov 2007 14:49:49 -0800 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,271,271#msg-271 http://dating.blameitonlove.com/read.php?13,271,271#msg-271
I moderate this forum... so you all had best be on your best damn behavior I have some rules:

1. No medicinal single malts.
2. All Tequila must be swallowed in one shot, or face my wrath.
3. Approach. Bow and scrape. State your business.]]> Mominatrix The Dungeon Thu, 15 Nov 2007 22:02:40 -0800