"This is scary and to think I've had guys be offended because I wouldn't meet them at their place. I hope he frys ro they hang him high by his testicles."
Note to self: always bring along either a frying pan or a george forman mini grill whenever invited to someones house for a first date!
all kidding aside, even meeting someone in a public place can be dangerous if you dont keep your eyes open and and stay on your toes... most "normal" guys will understand if you are cautious when first meeting them..... anyone who becomes upset or insulted if I am cautious at first can go fly a kite!(ever had someone try to follow you home, UNINVITED?).... when I get emails from guys who immediately put their phone number and or address on an email are asking for trouble (or ) Are TROUBLE.
in my opinion